To the Tribes Non-Mason Members

topic posted Wed, March 5, 2008 - 3:21 AM by 
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It must be a bit bloody boring to be in this tribe.. not many posts and it seems a bit dead...

What made you join the tribe and what impressions has it given you of Freemasons and Freemasonry ?
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  • Re: To the Tribes Non-Mason Members

    Sun, May 4, 2008 - 3:47 AM
    I know why I posted this topic !

    When I visit this tribe, I often notice that there are the avatars of woman under the “Active Members” (welcome Ladies!) and I was wondering why you are members of the tribe (I am curious as to your interest – which is also welcomed :) .. . At the moment, 50% of the avatars shown under “Active Members” are woman…. I would be really interested to hear what you say.. and questions and stories keep us occupied... I like story time :)
    • Re: To the Tribes Non-Mason Members

      Sun, May 4, 2008 - 5:22 PM
      Hey look bloke now I'm a woman avatar. I think all you Masons are soooooo studly...especially you. So why do the call it "down under"? Tee hee hee.
      • Re: To the Tribes Non-Mason Members

        Mon, May 5, 2008 - 3:03 AM
        *groan*

        (but I do have a strange desire to ask you for your phone number)

        But ignore us Ladies.. still interested why your members of the tribe. .
        • Re: To the Tribes Non-Mason Members

          Tue, May 6, 2008 - 11:17 AM
          I could not resist. it goes back to my theory of onlne chating. If you meet a 16 year old, Nypho, cheerleader...its really a fat, bald, middleaged guy living in his mothers basement getting his jollies from fooling you....beware.

          I wonder why people join tribes the never visit or participate in. I wonder why Masons join Masonic groups or lodges and never visit or participate. I guess some people are doers and some are just Joiners.
          • Re: To the Tribes Non-Mason Members

            Wed, May 7, 2008 - 11:05 PM
            I'm a lurker on a few tribes simply because I want to stay informed. I don't think joining the fraternity and not being active is the same thing.

            I have noticed that a fair number of people join the fraternity specificly because they want to join the Shrine and have no intrest in Masonry. Other people join because they want to tell people they're Freemasons more than actually want to be Freemasons. Still other people are curious but not interested enough to be active.

            I think the DaVinci Code and National Treasure have alot to do with the recent influx of relatively) younger people entering the Blue Lodge and never hearing from them again after their MM degree.
            • Re: To the Tribes Non-Mason Members

              Thu, May 8, 2008 - 4:11 AM
              "I think the DaVinci Code and National Treasure have alot to do with the recent influx of relatively) younger people entering the Blue Lodge and never hearing from them again after their MM degree. "

              Did anyone "work" with tiose brothers?? Did anyone from the lodge get to be their friends? Is there a mentoring program? There is such a thing as too much encouragement but also not enough contact as well. Of course some folks jsut think we are cool and that things run themselves.
              • Re: To the Tribes Non-Mason Members

                Thu, May 8, 2008 - 10:16 AM
                that is what all the old guys think and dare I say most grand lodges...we are so cool we don't have to do anything new or inovative. We must do what we always did because that is what we always did and that is what we do because we always did it that way so we continue to do it that way.

                Uhg...makes me want to break a few oaths and heads.

                You can't just hand a guy a drivers licence and say ok go drive and you can't just hand a guy a dues card and say ok just be masonic.
                • Re: To the Tribes Non-Mason Members

                  Thu, May 8, 2008 - 3:36 PM
                  Actually, in many cases I think the problem is the way in which we're changing. One day classes, abridged proficency examinations, reforming the degrees, little to no attention in the work itself. Being a builder is not being in the union, it's building things.

                  I'm not suggesting we shouldn't adapt to the times, I'm saying the way in which we've adapted to the times is hurting us more than it's helping us.
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                    Re: To the Tribes Non-Mason Members

                    Fri, May 9, 2008 - 6:33 AM
                    I'm not suggesting we shouldn't adapt to the times, I'm saying the way in which we've adapted to the times is hurting us more than it's helping us. "

                    We are to be builder of men right? Taking good men and making them better? IF (big iffor some folks) that is the goal then we need to have more social interaction and I'm sorry but many of my older counterparts prefer to spend the evening watching "reality TV". We had an officer tell us that one night as we were getting ready to open lodge. That we were cuttting into his "Survivor" time. A bunch of us younger masons with families were sorely offended by his comment.

                    I'm not neccesarily FOR one day classes but I'm not against it either. A mentoring program is only as good as your mentors BUT it is a step in the right direction. I found that out myself. Proficiency in our lodge is set by the Master. So the levels of proficiency vary from year to year or rathte Master to Master. my feeling is also that if the Master is to set proficiency he SHOULD be involved in the training of the new candidate/brother. But then again in some lodges that is difficult at best with the mount of work they do annually. For us it isn't as much of a problem with usually one class/set of degrees per year. As for "reforming" the degrees, I don't see that happening in NY and would fight any major changes without good cause. As far as paying attention to the work regular practices help that and we continually get that the OLD GUYS knwo their work and do not need practice. Well let me tell you it is often the OLD GUYS in our lodge that mumble or stumble thru the work worse than the young guys. The young guys simply do not know it the old guys have forgotten it. Catch 22. Work on ritual is paramount and help in the fellowship and fraternal feelings or at least should!

                    Nothing comes easy and neither will a successful lodge. It takes work on teh parts of both the old guys and the newer members.
                    • Re: To the Tribes Non-Mason Members

                      Fri, May 9, 2008 - 6:50 PM
                      you have to work to have anything worthwhile be it ritual or members. I am a big fan of practice because I feel embarassed when I or someone else messes up. I also hate one day classes becasue it is saying to these men...we don't care enough about you to make you follow the rules. We will make it easy for you so you dont have to do any work. You have to work to have anythig worthwhile......
              • Re: To the Tribes Non-Mason Members

                Thu, May 8, 2008 - 3:30 PM
                At my Lodge, yes. The minimum effort we put into each candidate is to assign them somebody who will help them to learn the proficency examinations with them. More often, however, we invite them to our fraternal time at the Lodge, on nights we don't have stated meetings as well as open the Lodge in the lowest common degree. My Lodge is pretty easy for most younger guys to fit-in as people of "traditional" religions are in the minority, and the average age of active members is about 30. In fact, we're pretty good at keeping our newer members, this is largely due to our emphasis on both ritual and fraternity. Our LEO also makes certain to keep them interested as well as informed about the basic Masonic customs that aren't written out.

                I was referring more to the One-Day-To-Masonry programs. I frequently hear from members of other Lodges as well as GL officers, concern about retaining membership.

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