I am the guy..

topic posted Mon, July 7, 2008 - 11:53 PM by 
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Someone emailed me this the other week..
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21/07/06 10:37
"I'M THE GUY"

I'm the guy who asked to join your Masonic Lodge. I'm your Brother who
has gone through the Three Degrees of Masonry and paid my dues. I'm your
Brother who stood up in front of you and promised to Assist when called
upon. I'm your Brother who came to the meetings and no one paid any
attention to.

I tried several times to be friendly and interact, but you all had your
own buddies to talk and sit next to. I sat down several times, but none of
you, my Brothers, paid any attention to me. I hoped very much that someone
would have asked me to take part in a project or help out, but no one saw my
efforts when I volunteered.

I missed a few meetings after joining because I was sick and couldn't
be there. No one asked me at the next meeting where I had been. I guess it
didn't matter very much to others whether I was there or not.
The next meeting I decided to stay home and watch television. The
following meeting I attended, and again, no one asked me where I was the
last meeting. I'm a good guy, a good family man, one who loves his
community and his country.

You know who else I am? I'm your brother who never came back. It
amuses me when I think back on how the Heads of the organization and the
members were discussing why the organization was losing members. It amuses
me to think they spent so much time looking for new members when there I was
all the time.

Author Unknown; Published in 1st Edition of
THE HAWAI'I FREEMASON; G.R.H.;
3rd Quarter, 2006.
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  • Re: I am the guy..

    Sat, July 12, 2008 - 7:47 AM
    And now what? It is ofcourse an interesting message. It is something we all hope to avoid that it happens. If this happens we must see it as our own fault. Nevertheless I don't know cases of this. Any new Brother is welcomed and encouraged to be a part of the Loge. This ofcourse works both ways. The Loge is encouraged to make the new Brother a part of the Loge. Ofcourse we can think about who has the fault in this case but since it is anomynous it will be difficult to know the real problem behind this message.

    Erik
    • Re: I am the guy..

      Sat, July 12, 2008 - 9:31 PM
      I can think of a Brother that we failed. And I have felt ignored when visiting big lodges.. so I guess the "Now what" is to make sure we always make an extra effort to make Brothers feel welcomed and valued. Normally we do that really well.. but not always..

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